Breathe...Until tomorrow...
A third person is nothing but an appearance to me. It depends upon my concept that I conceive a personality out of a person. Personality changes with perception. As such the Advait philosophy stands very clear that brahm is the only reality and every thing else is maya. When asked who is brahm it says - aham that’s me. As such relationship we perceive are apparently our own imagination. An enemy yesteryear can be an ally today.